Break the Patterns
Rewrite Your Story
You’ve done the work. You’ve read the books, taken the courses, and maybe even tried coaching before. But something still isn’t clicking. If you’re done with surface-level fixes and ready for deep transformation, you’re in the right place.
The way forward isn’t about fixing yourself—
it’s about breaking the patterns that were never yours to begin with.
Hello there, I’m Joi Whitmore!
I know what it’s like to wake up one day and realize you’ve been running on autopilot—doing all the “right” things, showing up for everyone else, pushing through… and yet, something still feels off.
For years, I thought if I just worked harder, helped more people, and kept everything under control, I’d eventually feel the peace I was searching for. But that’s not how it works. The patterns I was stuck in weren’t going to change just because I wished they would.
I had to unlearn the roles I’d been playing. I had to break the cycles that were keeping me small. And I had to stop waiting for permission to live life on my terms.
That’s what I help my clients do now. No fluff. No sugarcoating. Just the real work of breaking free from the expectations and patterns that have kept you stuck—so you can finally step into the life that’s waiting for you.
Your next chapter doesn’t have to look like your last.
Who I Work With
People who are high-achievers but exhausted from carrying too much—whether in relationships, work, or both.
Women who are waking up to the truth that their power was never in the hustle—but in the wisdom of the feminine they were taught to ignore.
Smart, self-aware people who’ve done all the ‘inner work’—but still feel like something isn’t clicking.
The Work We Do Together
Transformation isn’t just about mindset—it lives in the body too. You can’t journal, meditate, or “positive-think” your way out of patterns that are wired into your nervous system. If your body still expects stress, burnout, or over-giving, no amount of mindset work will change that.
That’s why we go deeper. Through somatic therapy, Reiki, and coaching, we don’t just talk about change—we create it. We get into the places where your patterns actually live, so you can stop understanding what’s wrong and start feeling what’s possible.
Through this work, you’ll:
Rewire old patterns and beliefs that are keeping you stuck.
Reconnect with your body’s wisdom so you can move forward with clarity and ease.
How Can I Help?
1:1 Coaching
Break free from old patterns and step fully into the life that’s calling you. Through deep coaching, somatic work, and intuitive guidance, we shift what’s been holding you back; so change actually lasts.
Business Coaching
Build a business that feels aligned. Together, we refine your strategy, clear the blocks, and create success on your terms, without the burnout.
Wayfinder Design Coaching
More than a website, this is about bringing your vision to life. We craft a soul-aligned site that reflects your essence, speaks to your audience, and works.